{"id":55047,"date":"2019-12-20T05:01:44","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T05:01:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.babyhealthandcare.com\/8-tricks-for-developing-positive-relationships-with-children\/"},"modified":"2019-12-20T05:01:44","modified_gmt":"2019-12-20T05:01:44","slug":"8-tricks-for-developing-positive-relationships-with-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.babyhealthandcare.com\/de\/8-tricks-for-developing-positive-relationships-with-children\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Tricks for Developing Positive Relationships with Children"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A parents worst nightmare is not developing positive relationships with their children. These relationships are very important, and being able to have this bond helps a parent know their child well. This means the child is more likely to listen to, abide by, and respect the parent leading to a better present and future relationship. This connection is the main reason behind a child\u2019s willingness to follow rules as well as wanting to cooperate. For some, the closeness with their child is lacking which both the parent and child need to work together on fostering positive relationships with one another.<\/p>\n

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Think of this as one-on-one time with the child. Take the time to show some interest in the things that the child enjoys doing. If you see them coloring or reading a book, let go of that smartphone and go sit with them and engage. Color or read with them, or whatever it may be they are doing at that moment.<\/p>\n
Make sure though to not be judgmental about their interests. What interests them may not interest you, but that\u2019s the beauty in connecting with your child \u2013 doing things they love. If you demonstrate that you don\u2019t like their hobbies, it may push them farther away from you. Just remember to suck it up because at the end of the day, you are the parent and you and your child will not always like the same things. Interacting with them and their hobbies will show them you care and bring in that positive, bonding relationship.<\/p>\n
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3<\/span>Invite Them Into Your World<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Sometimes when working on developing positive relationships with children, it can seem hard and impossible. Allowing the child to come into your world and showing them who you are and your daily life may change their minds and they may allow you more insight into their life as well. This can be taking them to work with you, taking them with you to the gym, or taking them with you to the theater or a class. Get them excited and interested in the fact they are being welcomed into your personal life. They may just let you into theirs as well.<\/p>\n
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4<\/span>Find a New Hobby Together<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Some parents may find they have no common interests with their child. Firstly, do not feel bad about this, it is actually more common than you may believe. Have a chat with the child, see what interests you both and take on that new hobby together. It helps to also find something that both of you have never done before so that no one has more experience than the other. This way you can work on this new hobby together. Doing so can increase communication and aid in developing positive relationships with children.<\/p>\n
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5<\/span>Don\u2019t Use Guilt as a Weapon<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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A major rule in developing positive relationships with children is to never guilt them or make them feel guilty. This will only cause resentment as well as losing respect for the parent in the long run. Let the child know you want to spend some quality time with them, but do remember that if they don\u2019t want to (as this may happen the first few times trying) not to guilt them about it. Don\u2019t make them feel bad if they do not want to hang out with you or spend time together. Give it a few tries and be persistent because in the end, they will let you into their life and give you a chance.<\/p>\n
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6<\/span>There is a Time for Friendship and a Time for Parenting<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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We all want to be our child\u2019s best friend, but we cannot forget that we are also their parent. Some parents forget they are the guardians and may take it too far. The parents first and main priority is to make sure the child is safe and getting the care they need and deserve. A balance between parenting and friendship is crucial and just as important as creating a bond with the child. You want your child to trust you enough to tell you about the things happening in their life and around them, but you also want them to feel safe enough to seek guidance as well. Having this balance will help in developing positive relationships with children.<\/p>\n
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7<\/span>Don\u2019t Get Discouraged<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Children are huge challenges, and as parents, we already know this. Sometimes, it may feel that no matter how hard you try, the closeness you\u2019re wanting isn\u2019t getting better as you had hoped. The first rule is to remember to never give up. Children know their parents are trying and do appreciate it even though they may not acknowledge it from the beginning. They know you care about them, and sometimes that is good enough for them.<\/p>\n
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8<\/span>Be Present in Their Life<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Most parents are half-present in their child\u2019s life whether it be due to work or just regular day to day house chores. When interacting with the child, make sure to be 100% present. This means, put down the smart phone, close the laptop or book, or leave whatever else it may be you are doing and be 100% with them. Be there in the moment and let go of everything else. Those things will be there when you come back to them. In making this a habit the parent will be making huge strides in developing positive relationships with their children.<\/p>\n
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Children need their parents. Developing positive relationships with children should be the first and foremost priority a parent has. These relationships build trust and closeness so that there are fewer bumps in the road as the child gets older. Take baby steps when working on building that relationship. Nothing changes over night even though we may wish it did. But by being persistent, over time, you and your child will have that amazing bond.<\/p>\n
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\"8 — <\/figcaption><\/p>\n
Think of this as one-on-one time with the child. Take the time to show some interest in the things that the child enjoys doing. If you see them coloring or reading a book, let go of that smartphone and go sit with them and engage. Color or read with them, or whatever it may be they are doing at that moment.<\/p>\n
Make sure though to not be judgmental about their interests. What interests them may not interest you, but that\u2019s the beauty in connecting with your child \u2013 doing things they love. If you demonstrate that you don\u2019t like their hobbies, it may push them farther away from you. Just remember to suck it up because at the end of the day, you are the parent and you and your child will not always like the same things. Interacting with them and their hobbies will show them you care and bring in that positive, bonding relationship.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
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3<\/span>Invite Them Into Your World<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
<\/p>\n
Sometimes when working on developing positive relationships with children, it can seem hard and impossible. Allowing the child to come into your world and showing them who you are and your daily life may change their minds and they may allow you more insight into their life as well. This can be taking them to work with you, taking them with you to the gym, or taking them with you to the theater or a class. Get them excited and interested in the fact they are being welcomed into your personal life. They may just let you into theirs as well.<\/p>\n
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4<\/span>Find a New Hobby Together<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
$\"8$ <\/figure>
<\/figcaption><\/p>\n
Some parents may find they have no common interests with their child. Firstly, do not feel bad about this, it is actually more common than you may believe. Have a chat with the child, see what interests you both and take on that new hobby together. It helps to also find something that both of you have never done before so that no one has more experience than the other. This way you can work on this new hobby together. Doing so can increase communication and aid in developing positive relationships with children.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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5<\/span>Don\u2019t Use Guilt as a Weapon<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
<\/p>\n
A major rule in developing positive relationships with children is to never guilt them or make them feel guilty. This will only cause resentment as well as losing respect for the parent in the long run. Let the child know you want to spend some quality time with them, but do remember that if they don\u2019t want to (as this may happen the first few times trying) not to guilt them about it. Don\u2019t make them feel bad if they do not want to hang out with you or spend time together. Give it a few tries and be persistent because in the end, they will let you into their life and give you a chance.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
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6<\/span>There is a Time for Friendship and a Time for Parenting<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
$\"8$ <\/figure>
<\/figcaption><\/p>\n
We all want to be our child\u2019s best friend, but we cannot forget that we are also their parent. Some parents forget they are the guardians and may take it too far. The parents first and main priority is to make sure the child is safe and getting the care they need and deserve. A balance between parenting and friendship is crucial and just as important as creating a bond with the child. You want your child to trust you enough to tell you about the things happening in their life and around them, but you also want them to feel safe enough to seek guidance as well. Having this balance will help in developing positive relationships with children.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
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7<\/span>Don\u2019t Get Discouraged<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
<\/p>\n
Children are huge challenges, and as parents, we already know this. Sometimes, it may feel that no matter how hard you try, the closeness you\u2019re wanting isn\u2019t getting better as you had hoped. The first rule is to remember to never give up. Children know their parents are trying and do appreciate it even though they may not acknowledge it from the beginning. They know you care about them, and sometimes that is good enough for them.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
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8<\/span>Be Present in Their Life<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
<\/p>\n
Most parents are half-present in their child\u2019s life whether it be due to work or just regular day to day house chores. When interacting with the child, make sure to be 100% present. This means, put down the smart phone, close the laptop or book, or leave whatever else it may be you are doing and be 100% with them. Be there in the moment and let go of everything else. Those things will be there when you come back to them. In making this a habit the parent will be making huge strides in developing positive relationships with their children.<\/p>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
$\"Daily$ <\/figure>\n
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Children need their parents. Developing positive relationships with children should be the first and foremost priority a parent has. These relationships build trust and closeness so that there are fewer bumps in the road as the child gets older. Take baby steps when working on building that relationship. Nothing changes over night even though we may wish it did. But by being persistent, over time, you and your child will have that amazing bond.<\/p>\n
WANT TO READ MORE?<\/strong>
Check out this article on IF TOMORROW NEVER CAME: PARENTING WITH NO REGRETS.<\/p>\n
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